Different Upbringings

I was being brought up in a very traditional culture.. where the woman’s clothings must not be washed with the men/boys clothings. It has to be separated.. for it was a taboo .. to be washing them together.. ! Women in my family are considered to be “dirty”, yes. .even by my own mother..! How incredible is that right..???

Of course i washed all my clothes with Papa BoK’s and Chloe .. but there are some things that i would never ask Papa BoK to do.. although he doesn’t mind doing it. Some of the things includes buying feminine stuff. Hahhaaa!! wierd eh..?? but ya.. can’t change the bad habit.. but yes.. i donch like to ask Papa BoK to do it at all. But i had no choice today.. since we had to man the store on our own.. and only Papa BoK is driving. So poor Papa BoK .. he did get the stuff i needed.. but not the same brand.. and not the one that i want.. but hey..! how to complain right..?? afterall…. he already went to buy the stuff that can be quite embarrassing for a man.. to buy . .when he is alone.. heh!!

Had i married someone from home… i bet i would have kenna sweared upside down .. inside out .. by my spouse’s mother or sisters. Heng ah..!!

Papa BoK even helps me with the cooking for Chloe if i am still sleeping… what more can i ask right..?? And when we are at the store.. he never asks me to do anything.. i just sit around. .chat with customers..and just relax.. what more can i ask right..?? I have great in-laws.. and i have a wonderful BIL .. what more can i ask..??

So my new year’s resolution for 2006 .. heck care to all those idiots/losers.. !! i have not only a great family.. but great friends too .. ! they are such losers.. because they donch have what i have..!