Author: mamabok

We have a feckless worker who refuses to do some very simple task and conveniently notify us that he didn’t do it a matter of factly.

Well .. for someone who cannot even make a few phone calls during his working hours… you can be sure.. he is not getting a pay raise anytime soon.

I swear that boy is plain lazy.

Cruiser that belongs to our customer. Cool isn’t it.. ??? This town loves their 2 wheelers.. 🙂

Chloe helping to put away her own food by loading them onto her tricycle.

I asked my spouse what kinda mummy am I.. and he said.. yer a good mummy B U T ……… you let Chloe get away with too many things..!!!

I donch agree with that.. because i feel that Chloe is still young… and she isn’t like really BAD or anything.. just loves to “kachou” (disturb/donch leave me alone) me when i need to do housework.. or eat .. and have bad sleeping habits. I do let her get her way.. because sometimes .. i need to keep her quiet.. while daddy sleeps.. or just stay by her side.. when she watches a movie.. and i donch go on the puter.. when she is awake.. i try to spend as much time with her as possible.. and that in turn actually made her more dependent of me.. and never wanting to let go.. when mummy is awake.. i guess.

I do wish to have more time to do my stuff.. but at the expense of leaving my daughter .. on her own.. to play on her own.. for hours..?? i cannot do that.. i never done that before.. nor will i try in the future.. unless Chloe tells me.. i want my time to myself.

Even when she is quietly sitting watching TV on her own .. i go check on her at least a few times.. just to make sure.. she is alright.. and not up to some mischief. If she was sleeping in the living room.. i too would go and check on her alot of times.

So is that wrong..?? to be so protective..?? i donch think so.. ! And i dare anyone to tell me.. that i’m too protective..and doing it the wrong way… coz’ it’s the way .. i’m comfortable with. So does it mean.. that i made her this way..?? make chloe think that she can get away with anything with mummy..?? i really donch think so.

Sure i let her get away with some stuff… but not all the stuff…. and she really isn’t terrible.. and she is just a baby. So if i do let her get away with stuff.. does it make me a bad mummy..???

That led me to tell you the story about .. Did i make my daughter sick..?? in my earlier post. Because of what daddy said… i tried to be firmed with her .. one nite.. and she came down with a temperature…… so it’s daddy’s fault..!! hahahahhahahah!! blame it all on daddy…!!

Chloe just came over to me.. while i was on the floor watching TV .. and plant a kiss on my cheeks.. for no reason watsoever… hehehhe!! wasn’t tat sweet now.. 😉

But she wouldn’t do it again.. no matter how i coaxed her.. 🙁

Oh well.. mummy just have to be patient i guess.. 😉 and count my blessings that i got one from her today.. and daddy wasn’t even at home to see it.. 🙁