Children bear no grudges – they may be fighting one day but the next day they forget and become good friends again. It’s only us adults who cannot get over things and stop talking to each other or avoid each other. We really have to take a page from our kid’s life and be like them – and not bear grudges and let bygones be bygones but it’s of course easier said than done. So when you kids keep coming back and whining about stuff to you – you may wanna check yourself first and see if you are behaving this way – children pick up their behavior from their parents and those they are closest with. Having said that, I guess I better check myself – because I know PB is not a whiner – so it has to be me – muahahha!! see there is so much to learn from being a parent.