So Father’s Day is a few days away and on my facebook page, I see and am friends with a lot of upstanding fathers. I am so happy that there are so many good fathers out there including my spouse and his father – my father-in-law.
But of course, I cannot help but think of my own dad who was never there for me or my siblings. It’s actually quite sad for him because we were all good kids and we turn out pretty good despite not having him in our lives.
And I’m happy to tell everyone from my past and present what a good dad the spouse is to the kid. I cannot ask for a better dad for my kid, in fact, I think he is better with the kid than I am. Not only is he there for her , but he pays for everything the kid needs. He brings her to the doctors, the dentist and any appointments she has and pick her up and drop her off religiously to anywhere she wants to go. Understanding her and never forcing her to do anything she doesn’t want nor embarrassing her in front of her friends like her mom does. LOL.
Yes, anyone can father kids but to be a real dad – not many ppl are up to it. And I can proudly say that my kid’s Dad is the best to her.