After having my lil’ brat, everyone said.. it will only get better . .once she is more independent but any mummy would know it isn’t true. Children can be very demanding .. and i don’t know how some can have more then 1 child, it must be tough. My sanctuary is my bathroom, everytime I am able to stay in the shower for a good 20mins.. i feel really good.. away from everything. .just my own time. Therefore, when anyone who visits my home, thinks i spend alot on bathroom vanities, well. .now you know why.