Not Going But Went

We said.. we weren’t going to visit my in-laws.. because the brat was still sick on Sunday.. but we did go .. in the end.. because the first thing the brat asked was .. “Are we going to Grammie’s today..??” .. followed by.. “You tell my daddy .. we are going to Grammie’s today.!” first thing in the morning on Sunday. So how not to go right..?? So say.. donch go.. donch go.. still went.. ! Aiyoh..!! the brat is the queen ma..!