And My Journey Thru' Breast Cancer
Here we see Keegan and her pierced nose. I was freaking out .. when she showed me the nose piercing.. but she said.. it didn’t hurt. See lah..!! this gal..!! so pretty .. yet.. she don’t know how pretty she is. Any asian girls out there.. would die for her features.. yet she wants to pierce her nose..!! Aiyoh..!!! just because her friends did it too.
I read from another blogging mom’s blog questioning herself if she was a bad mom.. for being on the computer for the whole day… and not playing with her daughter… because the need of her earning the extra money.. because her husband isn’t working. If that at this point of time, would someone say that she was an “awesome mom” or “did a great job with her daughter”. I am sure alot of mummies out there asked themselves this question all the time. And seeing some that churned out plenty of work each day.. means that alot of time is taken away from the kids.
Spending time on the computer .. trying to put food on the table for the family, doesn’t make you a bad mom. But life is short.. and one has gotta learn to prioritize and once you know how to do that.. you’ll be fine. Now you would be a bad mom.. if you were on the computer all day.. neglecting your child.. and cheating the system.. and trying to make a few more bucks that don’t belong to you. Now that would make you a bad mom! There is absolutely nothing wrong in working hard the whole day.. but when you lie and cheat thinking that no one saw you .. well.. you know you are not a good mom at all. How would you face your kid..?? I wouldn’t be proud.. would you..?? Are you a good mom..??
Yes… ! i didn’t think i can do it.. because like all moms.. around the world.. you wanna get as much done as possible. But let me tell you .. it is a very good practice . .to be able to nap.. even if it was an hour. I took the opportunity to nap.. when our babysitter .. keegan was in… and even though i was tossing alot.. i still got some rest.. and feel alot better.
In my case.. as you all know the brat wakes up at all hours of the night. PB and I hardly get 8hrs.. and if we did get 6 .. we would be very happy. So yes, new mothers, old mothers.. to be mothers.. or not even mothers.. should learn how to nap. even if it was an hour.. it does the body good.
We started having a savings account for our daughter just after she turned one. Afterall, she does get a check from the government till she is 16 yrs old.. and to use it . .it would not be right. We feel that doing it now.. when she is young, it would only means that she gets a head start for her college or university.. or when she decides to travel the world.. before she starts working. We all have big hopes for our children.. i am sure.
We are currently looking into online savings for her because we are always busy at work and sometimes the cheques sit in our home for a few weeks before it gets into her bank. But with online banking, we can just transfer it from our own to hers.. without any delay. Plus when she is older, it is going to be a breeze for her too. There are many benefits to using an online savings account, not only does it saves time, it saves money and effort too. No more queuing . . and no more having to worry about bad weather.
When you maintain a minimum balance of $300, you will never be charged a service charge but even if you are it’s only $4. You get to do all your transactions online and get your electronic statement for free. And when the kid is older and needs a checking account, she can easily link her online savings account to a WaMu checking account. If you are thinking of a savings account for your children, why not check WaMu out.
She has so much fun bathing.. and PB does a good job.. cleaning her up. .because i can’t bend over.. because of my fibroids. But it is really good to see father and daughter bonding.. because my father never bond this way with us. Times has changed. Even my mother-in-law said i was lucky.. to get so much help. .for she didn’t.
Whether you are relocating, buying a house or downsizing or upgrading, we all know that it’s a huge investment.. and just like any couple, family, we know that we have to be very careful when we buy a house or sell one.
And if you are moving to New York City, Long Island or the Hamptons, the name behind Manhattan New York real estate, Douglas Elliman’s real estate company is Prudential. And I’m sure that you know how established and reputable Prudential is and unlike your friendly neighborhood real estate agent that might fly by night. At Douglas, you can expect professionalism and integrity when you deal with them. Check out their listings of Hamptons real estate properties and you will see why I highly recommend them.
Don’t be intimidated by their yearly sales volume of $12Billion or over 13,200 transactions because even though they rank a month the top 10 real estate companies in USA, they are very dedicated to helping your achieve one goal and that is to find you the right property or sell your property for you at the right price.
Sometimes whenI see PB carrying the brat to bed.. i get such a wonderful feeling.. maybe my dad was never this way to us..?? And on the other hand.. i know i can never make it as a one parent thing. It’s hard to be a good parents .. and to do it alone.. now that’s scary. Alot of ppl do it.. but i doubt i can. I’m a two parents kind of person. What about you ..?? I do admire those single moms..! i donch know how they do it.. or brave it out.
PB had a cousin who had her wedding planned Mexico and although it was a very small wedding, it was wonderful. I recommend Rocky Point Mexico wedding because they take care of the wedding couple and their guests. It was absolutely romantic, they even have videos to bring back with them to show their family and friends that couldn’t attend.
With beautiful sandy beaches, warm blue waters, and stunning sunsets, It was a magical wedding, the cousin & her husband were relaxed and enjoyed the care free pleasures of beachfront wedding and romantic honeymoon. Very memorable and oh so romantic not only for the wedding couple.. but for us who had attended the wedding.
After a week with no keegan, the brat was definitely happy to be with her again. They played dressed up.. and drew .. and ate . . and she was extremely happy .. after Keegan left. They do get along well.. and keegan does take good care of the brat. Oh . .and i took a nap. Awesome..!
I’ve always wanted to share my love of music with my daughter.. and what better way then to teach her at home where she is in a friendly environment.. and not feel intimidated. If you are like me and want to nurture your kids love for music, for more information visit www.pianoforpreschoolers.com. You will be surprised that you do not need any musical background to teach your kid at all.