90% of the women here in Y-Town have babies.. and not all of them are of age yet. But even those who are .. of age.. adults.. 90% of them.. are not married to the father of their child. They remain as boyfriends and girlfriends.. and would rather continue this way. To hear someone getting married is very rare and to hear that someone stayed in their marriage is even rarer.
Yes.. the whites here.. do not believe in getting married.. they become girlfriends and boyfriends here only .. not even cohabitation .. for some.. because that would mean.. that it eats up on their welfare money .. if you cohabit. So if you think your girlfriend married a white man and moved to say United States or Canada.. they might not even be married .. just common-law-spouse.. and it is VERY COMMON here.