A older customer was in yesterday late afternoon just to ask me about online relationship. I guess he did know that i met my brat’s daddy online. Hahhahaha!!
Now what ppl do not know is, my online relationship went on for a good 6 yrs before we met up. Ours didn’t just happen like in a lightning flash, nor was it puppy love or jumping into bed kinda relationship.
Anyhow, i gave whatever i know to our customer and cross my fingers for him for not all online relationship will work out. Plus it is a very huge gamble too, since either one needs to fly to a foreign country .. to meet up. But anyone wanting an online relationship needs to know that … even when you do meet and decide to stay together.. it is still an uphill task. For the cultural differences, the being so far away from your family and friends .. and of course.. the food, can create a huge sense of discontentment in some after some time, or when the dazzle begin to fizzle.
So yes… in any relationship .. it will work.. if you work at it.
I have to admit that my spouse is most tolerance to my nonsense, for i can be really strange at times. If not for that tolerance.. i doubt we would be still together.
So for those who wants to go into an online relationship.. be prepared to get a crazy partner like I, be ready for someone who is very opiniated like I, be also willing to shower alot of love to your partner for he or she is so far away from home and loneliness can bring out the strangest emotions in a person .. be it a man or woman.
Bottom line is : Go into the online relationship with your eyes and ears open. And money should never be an issue in your relationship, meaning NEVER send money to your online partner. Well, unless you have been together online for at least 6 yrs.
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