He’s 39

Yes!  PB is only 39 and he turned 39 a few days ago – but I had completely forgotten the date –  and only later in the day did i remember – muahahah!!!  I’m guessing it’s because we are too familiar with each other that birthdays and Christmases or Valentine day is just another day to us.   I don’t know about you – but after so many years together – the romantic and the heart beating part is not so much there no more.   Don’t get me wrong – of course i love the man – but he is very the unromantic – if you get the drift! I don’t expect flowers and champagne everyday but mannnn!!!  he doesn’t plan for stuff like that – quite boring right?

My mom used to say that a boring man is an honest man – but I have to tell my mom that she is not completely right – hahha!! the honest part is right – but mannn ..!! the boring can kill!  but yes! he was this way when i met him and I don’t expect to change him – but really – if his form of romantic is bringing me and the kid out for lunch once a week and he is buried in his kindle – now I could smack him for that.   So a little balance is good – some interest to be shown to the kid and I would be nice, hmmmmm … I’ve gotta think of a clever way to explain all the above to him without sounding mad or whiny.